In today's society it's generally unacceptable to fail; losing a business, losing a sports game or working on any project or start-up that doesn't quite turn out the way that it was meant to. We should encourage failing more, as failing at anything will make you stronger as long as you remember to learn from it. Failing at something is inevitable but if you're prepared and you know that good things come from mistakes you can come back stronger and increase your chances of success the next time.
Being good at failing
Being good at failing entails a few things such as getting back up quickly by stopping feeling sorry for yourself, learning from the mistakes you make and failing small to limit risk. Combining these 3 steps you limit your risk of failing in the first place, get over the failure quickly so you become more productive and learn how to do things better through careful reflection.
1. Getting back up quickly
Imagine how unproductive a person can be if he doesn't move on after failing. The people that get things done in life are the people that quickly realize that they made a mistake and then move on to other projects. Barbara Corcoran from Shark Tank says this about entrepreneurs that get rejected: "The only difference between the superstars making the millions a year and the persons barely getting by is how long they feel sorry for themselves once they get hit."
(Video here). I'm not saying that you shouldn't feel sorry for yourself but limit it to a reasonable timeframe and then move on and get productive.
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